I should have done this.
I should have done that.
I should do this.
I should do that.
Should.
Used to indicate obligation or correctness. Often used to criticize.
Should.
When we use this word with ourselves, we separate ourselves from our intention.
“Should” separates us from what we are in tension of. The tension within.
“Should” separates us from who we are being.
It separates us from our power. It can render us powerless. It dishonors what powered us.
“Should” is often powered by voices within that are not from us.
“Should” may exist in retrospect. Still, avoid it because of how it separates you.
Side effects can include low self-esteem, lack of confidence, inadequacy, feeling like a fake or an impostor, suffering, and pain.
“Should” disrespects what is.
You will go where you will go.
You will do what you will do.
You will say what you will say.
You will act how you will act.
You will live as you will live.
Acceptance of this truth can set you free.
Either you will own your words and actions or they own you.
Either you own your being or it owns you.
When we don’t examine this, our language speaks for us.
Instead of "should," say...
“I am....”
When we connect with these two powerful words, we connect with who we are being.
